So i want to talk about Significant others, with me im not married, im not engaged but i have been with my boyfirend for two years and i love him but some days it feels like im raising dayna on my own, i get no help at all his philosophy is i work and bring home money so therefore i dont need to spend anytime with her and i dont need to talk to her most days it feels like were burdens. I look at all these couples who may not be married but the boyfriend plays with the child, acts like he loves the child, i just wish my boyfriend would act like that with our little angel.

Looking at the upside of this though is that i can parent her the way that i see fit, if i want to let her cry it out i can, if i dont want her going away for sleepovers out of town i can say so and until i see more actual parenting then as far as im concerned there is no say on his part. Another thing is if things go south with me and him then i know that as a single mom i can be okay i know that i will have the ability to take care of my daughter and of me.

I want to know what your current relasionship is and if you have any questions email away
wearemoms@hotmail.com